A note from Dr. Shawn Giammattei
Amid the pre-holiday hustle and bustle — while many families were focused on school breaks, travel, and simply catching their breath — important decisions were quietly moving forward in Washington.
On December 17, federal agencies advanced proposals that could affect access to gender-affirming care for transgender and gender-diverse youth. I know how familiar this feels for many families: decisions made quickly, with little public attention, that negatively impact the care our children rely on.
Right now we are in a comment period and I’m asking you to comment because I’ve spent decades sitting with parents and caregivers who are doing everything they can — thoughtfully, lovingly — to support their children. I’ve seen how affirming, evidence-based care strengthens families and saves lives. I’ve also seen the fear that emerges when that care is threatened by politics rather than medical expertise.
Right now, we have a real opportunity to be heard.
These proposals are not laws.
They are open for public comment — and that means your voice matters.
A note from Dr. Shawn Giammattei
Amid the pre-holiday hustle and bustle — while many families were focused on school breaks, travel, and simply catching their breath — important decisions were quietly moving forward in Washington.
On December 17, federal agencies advanced proposals that could affect access to gender-affirming care for transgender and gender-diverse youth. I know how familiar this feels for many families: decisions made quickly, with little public attention, that negatively impact the care our children rely on.
Right now we are in a comment period and I’m asking you to comment because I’ve spent decades sitting with parents and caregivers who are doing everything they can — thoughtfully, lovingly — to support their children. I’ve seen how affirming, evidence-based care strengthens families and saves lives. I’ve also seen the fear that emerges when that care is threatened by politics rather than medical expertise.
Right now, we have a real opportunity to be heard.
These proposals are not laws.
They are open for public comment — and that means your voice matters.
“Your voice doesn’t need to be perfect. It just needs to be real.”
What’s Happening — and Why This Moment Matters
The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (HHS), through the Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services (CMS), has released two proposed rules that could limit access to gender-affirming care for minors by changing how federal health funding can be used.
These proposals could affect:
They do not make care illegal. Instead, they attempt to restrict access through funding rules — and because they are proposals, public input can influence what happens next.
This reinforces agency and possibility, not fear.
What You Can Do Today
Submitting a public comment is one of the most direct ways to show up for trans and gender-diverse youth. You do not need policy expertise — your lived experience and values are enough. If you do have expertise, please share that as well.
Take action here:
👉 Comment on the Medicaid & CHIP proposal
https://www.regulations.gov/document/CMS-2025-1823-0001
👉 Comment on the hospital participation proposal
https://www.regulations.gov/document/CMS-2025-1822-0001
Click “Submit a Comment.” A few thoughtful sentences truly matter.
How to Comment Safely
Public comments become part of the federal record. You are always in control of what you share.
You may:
Your safety and comfort matter.
A Final Word
Our community has faced moments like this before — often quietly, often unexpectedly. And each time, it has been the steady presence of families, caregivers, and allies that has shaped what comes next.
Taking a few minutes to submit a comment is an act of care. It’s a way of saying: our children matter, our families matter, and our voices belong in these decisions.
Thank you for being here. Thank you for showing up.
With care,
Dr. Shawn Giammattei, PhD
Founder & CEO, TransFamily Alliance &
Gender Health Training Institute
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A note from Dr. Shawn Giammattei
Amid the pre-holiday hustle and bustle — while many families were focused on school breaks, travel, and simply catching their breath — important decisions were quietly moving forward in Washington.
On December 17, federal agencies advanced proposals that could affect access to gender-affirming care for transgender and gender-diverse youth. I know how familiar this feels for many families: decisions made quickly, with little public attention, that negatively impact the care our children rely on.
Right now we are in a comment period and I’m asking you to comment because I’ve spent decades sitting with parents and caregivers who are doing everything they can — thoughtfully, lovingly — to support their children. I’ve seen how affirming, evidence-based care strengthens families and saves lives. I’ve also seen the fear that emerges when that care is threatened by politics rather than medical expertise.
Right now, we have a real opportunity to be heard.
These proposals are not laws.
They are open for public comment — and that means your voice matters.
“Your voice doesn’t need to be perfect. It just needs to be real.”
What’s Happening — and Why This Moment Matters
The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services (HHS), through the Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services (CMS), has released two proposed rules that could limit access to gender-affirming care for minors by changing how federal health funding can be used.
These proposals could affect:
They do not make care illegal. Instead, they attempt to restrict access through funding rules — and because they are proposals, public input can influence what happens next.
This reinforces agency and possibility, not fear.
What You Can Do Today
Submitting a public comment is one of the most direct ways to show up for trans and gender-diverse youth. You do not need policy expertise — your lived experience and values are enough. If you do have expertise, please share that as well.
Take action here:
👉 Comment on the Medicaid & CHIP proposal
https://www.regulations.gov/document/CMS-2025-1823-0001
👉 Comment on the hospital participation proposal
https://www.regulations.gov/document/CMS-2025-1822-0001
Click “Submit a Comment.” A few thoughtful sentences truly matter.
How to Comment Safely
Public comments become part of the federal record. You are always in control of what you share.
You may:
Your safety and comfort matter.
A Final Word
Our community has faced moments like this before — often quietly, often unexpectedly. And each time, it has been the steady presence of families, caregivers, and allies that has shaped what comes next.
Taking a few minutes to submit a comment is an act of care. It’s a way of saying: our children matter, our families matter, and our voices belong in these decisions.
Thank you for being here. Thank you for showing up.
With care,
Dr. Shawn Giammattei, PhD
Founder & CEO, TransFamily Alliance &
Gender Health Training Institute
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What Parents with Trans Kids Want You To Know
Transfamily AllianceSeptember 11, 2026|
Madres y Padres con Hijes Trans Te Comparten Desde Su Experiencia de Carios Años en un Viaje de Género
Transfamily AllianceSeptember 11, 2026|
Self-Care for Parents of Trans and Nonbinary Kids: Welcome to Phase 3, Gender Healing
Transfamily AllianceSeptember 1, 2026|
My Kid Came Out As Non-Binary And I Feel Completely Lost
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